What Makes You So Special?
Wednesday, February 17th, 2010Why should someone listen to what you have to say or buy what you have to offer?
Take a minute and really think about those questions. Do you have a clear answer? Because if you don’t, then the people to whom you want to market your business won’t have one either.
At a session I did awhile back, one of the attendees shared how valuable zeroing in on these answers was for her own business.
Looking at it from a two-pronged approach, she knew that in her personal life, she had a huge story which went all the way back to her father. She personally struggled with conveying the story because, in her words, “I felt that feeling of ’Oh god, I can’t tell people that because I would feel uncomfortable telling them. And they would feel uncomfortable hearing this story.’ ”
But at a networking meeting where each participant was given seven minutes to talk about his or her personal life instead of what they did for a living, she relayed her story. “The whole room just went silent. They couldn’t believe it.”
Afterward she was approached by people encouraging her to write the story she had just told. Someone asked, “When is the book coming out?”
She had always felt very embarrassed about telling her story. But in light of the reaction she received, she had to rethink her reluctance. As she said, “I’ve always thought of it as being, ‘Oh no, you don’t do that.’ So that sort of turned it on its head slightly.”
Though it took a good deal of courage for her to share her story with the group, she knew that her story was a significant part of what made her so special. And the feedback she received from that group was quite the opposite from what she expected. They weren’t at all uncomfortable or embarrassed, they were compelled. “Godsmacked,” as she put it.
She didn’t even know why she chose to share her story that particular morning. This is what she told me … “I thought, ‘Oh for goodness sake, just tell them. Just tell them.’ And I did. And I think actually after I’d done that, their attitude towards me changed.”
It sometimes does take bravery and nerve to explore who you are and why you are doing what you’re doing. It takes fortitude and mettle to share your stories and reasons, especially the ones that once left you feeling vulnerable.
But these are also the reasons why you are special. And sharing them is one of the most powerful ways to really take your marketing to a whole new level.
Bernadette Doyle is a marketing specialist who helps entrepreneurs become client magnets and attract a steady stream of their ideal clients. She publishes a free, weekly newsletter for trainers, speakers, coaches, consultants, complementary therapists and solo professionals. If you’d like to receive invaluable tips and advice on how to attract clients with ease, register at http://www.clientmagnets.com
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