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Your Relationship After Having a Child
By Lara Lee
Many men and women worry about how the child would effect their relationship, of course everybody has uncertainties. A new human being coming in your life, can change a lot.

But do not panic, the new baby will only bring a reason for you to get more closer to your partner. He or she will be a lifelong icon of your love.

Here are a few reasons why you will get closer to your partner after having a child. Once you hold the baby you will both be hugging him or her together, the cuddles along with the baby. All those pictures being taken, will be releasing oxytocin which is a love hormone. Whenever you hug or cuddle you feel relaxed and closer to your partner. Just because you are not having sex does not mean you can not feel closer to each other.

Indulge in other type of activities such as massages, or baths. You should lye down with your partner in his lap once the baby is asleep.
Do not be embarrassed over your body, after the child’s birth. your nipples might be swollen or you might have gotten, some stretch marks after the birth. But your partner has seen you giving birth, and knows it is not easy to become a mother. So do not lose confidence, and remember you are beautiful.

With a baby on board you will also get in touch with your childhood days. Not only will you and your partner plan activities with the baby, you might talk about older days. You will have talks about who he or she looks like. You might sit down and discuss what you want for your baby. All these talks are important to strengthen your relationship. Giving birth is a difficult period for a woman. It is always important to make the most of your time together and do not panic, this new child will bring warmth, blessings and harmony in your household.

First it was just you and your partner, now you will be a family. You will have discussions about who will go the doctor, when to go grocery shopping for the baby. Both of you will be involved in raising the child. Whenever you will have time for each other you will cherish that time.

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